The Endless Waiting

Parents need to become experts in learning how to wait without losing their minds. They need to expect long waits for everything from blood draws to procedures. Many parents find themselves getting nervous or angry while waiting for the doctors to appear during "rounds" each morning (when the attendings, residents, and interns move from room to room in a large group), then feel let down when the visit lasts only a few moments. If you have questions to ask the doctors, write them down and tell the doctors when they come in that you would like a few moments to discuss concerns or ask questions.

It helps to come prepared for long waits each time that you go to the hospital. Some progressive (and well-funded) institutions have VCRs and games available, but usually often you need to bring your own things. Have your child pick out favorite card games, board games, computer games, drawing materials, and books. Remember to bring food and drinks.